Children Can Understand

We don't give kids enough credit. Though they can be young and stupid (like we all were at some point), they can grasp a lot of concepts that the adult world hides out of overprotective obsession. This sheltering can lead to many issues down the line. For example, within states that teach abstinence only sex-ed, teenage pregnancy is much higher as those who do have sex don't know how to do so safely.

Pictured: A graph showing the relationship between the level of abstinence only education and teen pregnancy (source).

Not sure what they are doing in Nevada, but the trend is undeniable.

Now, there are certainly inappropriate ways to teach children about topics. For example, you shouldn't have the sex talk with your kids by giving them a link to your favorite video on PornHub. But there are ways.

One of the common topics today that many believe cannot be shared with children is the existence of LGBTQ+ people. "Protecting" children is one of the main reasons that is given about trying to deny LGBTQ+ people rights; much of the rhetoric focuses on the knowledge "corrupting" the innocence of children. For example, the "Don't Say Gay" laws in Florida started as lower elementary policies before expanding across the school system.

Pictured: A thing I saw on Facebook that illustrates my point.

I've written briefly on why this is harmful and that even a selfish argument exists for teaching children about LGBTQ+ issues. However, when viewing the rhetoric online and in person, people seem to equate this with teaching children about hardcore sex.

Pictured: What some people actually think is happening.

So for all who think this is an impossible line to walk, here's a script for you!

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Teaching About Non-Straight People

Jamie: Hey, why are those two people holding hands?

You: Oh. They might be gay.

Jamie: What's that?

You: Well, you know how [insert straight couple] love each other?

Jamie: Yes.

You: Well, they love each other the same way.

Teaching Gender Identity

Taylor: My friend Andy is now saying they're a guy?

You: Ah. They are probably transgender.

Taylor: What's that?

You: Well, you know how you are a [insert child's gender]?

Taylor: Yes.

You: Sometimes, guys get born in girl's bodies and vice versa. Sometimes, people aren't really either a "girl" or a "guy."

Taylor: So, Andy is a guy?

You: Yep. Just as much as any of the other boys.

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It really is that simple.

Pictured: Uncomplicated.